Reviewed by Helen Kollias, PhD and Brian St. Pierre, MS, RD
Sooner or later in my mid-40s, the dimensions began climbing.
A pound or two became 5, then 10, then 20.
It appeared as if I used to be doing all the precise issues: Consuming much less, transferring extra, rinse, repeat. But, the more durable I labored, the much less the dimensions appeared to reply.
Had perimenopause destroyed my metabolism?
It certain felt prefer it.
Nevertheless, after asking my physician to run a collection of exams, I realized that my metabolism was, in actual fact, superb. As a substitute, just like the overwhelming majority of midlife ladies, the true causes of my weight acquire stemmed from a number of refined points that I’d have sworn, on the time, didn’t apply to me.
If, like me, you or your consumer are presently caught in what seems like an eat much less, acquire extra cycle, this text is right here to assist.
On this story, you’ll uncover:
- A number of causes ladies acquire weight at midlife which have nothing to do with a “slower metabolism”
- Why intense train and strict diets can backfire after menopause
- 11 artful methods to get a deal with on midlife weight acquire
First, what’s menopause?
Many ladies consult with midlife sizzling flashes and inconsistent menstruation as “being in menopause” or “menopausal.”
Nevertheless, menopause isn’t a part as a lot as a transitional second that separates menstruation from non-menstruation.
When you’ve gone 12 consecutive months with no interval, you’ve reached menopause. For most individuals, that second arrives someplace between ages 46 and 56.
The new-and-dewy months and years main as much as that twelfth missed interval are technically generally known as “perimenopause.”
Perimenopause means “round menopause.”
Some individuals consult with this time as the menopause transition. That is when estrogen ranges fluctuate. Menstrual cycles lengthen and shorten and, at occasions, disappear, solely to return just a few months later. For many individuals, this marks the start of signs like sizzling flashes, sleep points, vaginal dryness, temper adjustments, and, sure, creeping weight acquire.
(For an intensive overview of the various adjustments that may occur throughout this time, learn: ‘What’s taking place to my physique!?’ 6 way of life methods to attempt after menopause)
How a lot weight do ladies acquire throughout menopause?
Many ladies consider menopause and weight acquire the identical manner many younger dad and mom consider two-year-olds and tantrums: Inevitable.
Nevertheless, not all ladies acquire weight in the course of the menopause transition, explains Helen Kollias, PhD, who’s an knowledgeable on physiology and molecular biology, and a science advisor at Precision Vitamin and Ladies Gone Sturdy.
On common, within the West, ladies acquire 4 to 6 kilos in the course of the three-and-a-half years of perimenopause, or about one to 2 kilos a 12 months.1 2
That’s double the speed of weight acquire in pre-menopausal ladies, although it’s roughly the identical quantity males acquire at midlife, notes Dr. Kollias.
In different phrases, the menopause transition will not be solely responsible for these additional kilos on the dimensions. Ageing could play a big function, as we discover under.
The actual causes the dimensions climbs
A number of components conspire so as to add kilos to your body in the course of the menopause transition.
✅ You’re not sleeping as effectively.
Perhaps this sounds acquainted: You wake repeatedly with sweat pooling beneath your breasts and sheets which are uncomfortably damp (or soaked).
Even if you happen to don’t have night time sweats, loads of different points would possibly maintain you awake.
First, there’s fear—over growing older dad and mom, youngsters with automotive keys, cash wanted to switch that leaking roof, some unusual bodily sensation you’re apprehensive may be most cancers, the colonoscopy or mammogram you don’t need to schedule but additionally don’t not need to schedule, the intercourse you’re not having, and so many others.
Plus, if you happen to’re like me and you’ve got osteoarthritis in a number of joints, your physique hurts. Or your pores and skin would possibly itch. Or your legs are stressed. Otherwise you’re bloated.3 4 5 6
My level: Issues that make sleep uncomfortable can multiply with age.
Due to this, I’ll generally wake 4 or extra occasions an evening, because the crimson sections of this readout from my smartwatch present.

These dangerous nights usually arrange a vicious cycle:
The next day, I really feel as if I’m two inhales away from demise. So, I maintain myself going with caffeine, which makes the following night time simply as dangerous or worse.
Lack of sleep not directly provides kilos to your body in a number of methods:
- Whenever you’re sleep-deprived, it’s more durable to deal with detrimental feelings, which can imply you flip to meals for solace.
- As well as, your decision-making will get compromised, so it’s more durable to decide on an apple when a chocolate chip cookie can be accessible.
- Plus, sleep deprivation intensify each urge for food and cravings (which we’ll talk about extra within the subsequent part)
(Need to get a deal with on a few of the sleep challenges distinctive to this transition? Try: How menopause impacts sleep, and what you are able to do about it)
✅ You’re hungry, and never for celery.
True story: Once I was in my early 30s, somebody as soon as informed me about her intense cravings, and I assumed, “Cravings? What are these precisely?”
(Don’t hate me.)
These days now really feel international to me. Submit-menopause, I spend most of my morning questioning how quickly I can eat lunch, what I might need for lunch, whether or not it’s okay to have a snack now, and, in that case, what it must be.
After lunch, I am going on to spend the afternoon desirous about dinner.
It’s as if my urge for food by no means flips off.
For the longest time, I assumed one thing was unsuitable with my mind or metabolism.
It didn’t happen to me that the elevated starvation, urge for food, and cravings probably stemmed from my repeated awakenings every night time.
Till I checked out the analysis.
In a single examine, individuals who had been sleep-deprived reported increased ranges of starvation and a stronger want to eat. When supplied entry to snacks, they consumed twice as a lot fats in comparison with days once they weren’t sleep-deprived.7
In one other examine, when wholesome, younger examine members slept 4 hours an evening, they consumed 350 extra energy the next day.8
The annoying cycle of weight and meals preoccupation
Hormonal transitions (puberty, being pregnant, menopause) usually trigger adjustments to ladies’s physique form and dimension.
Generally that’s welcome (“Ooh, a butt!”) and generally it’s not (“Darn, a butt!”).
Some ladies—like me—don’t fear an excessive amount of about their weight or physique form. Then, we acquire surprising (and undesirable) kilos, and with that, a brand new (additionally undesirable) preoccupation with the dimensions.
Many ladies additionally discover that as they attempt to get a deal with on the dimensions, their preoccupation with meals could (frustratingly and paradoxically!) shoot upwards—particularly in the event that they flip to restrictive diets or meals guidelines for an answer.
Curiously, this preoccupation with meals can happen whether or not or not somebody is truly decreasing their calorie consumption. In different phrases, this phenomenon can occur when somebody simply thinks about decreasing their meals consumption.
The phenomenon has a reputation: It’s known as cognitive dietary restraint (CDR), and it may create a irritating cycle of physique picture dissatisfaction, meals preoccupation, and stress.
In a single examine, individuals who used a low-carb, intermittent fasting protocol to shed extra pounds reported extra frequent episodes of binge consuming and extra intense meals cravings.9
In one other examine, postmenopausal ladies who scored excessive in CDR excreted extra of the stress hormone cortisol than ladies who scored decrease on this measure.10 Larger ranges of CDR in pre- and postmenopausal ladies had been even related to shorter telomeres, an indication of accelerated growing older.11
All this to say, leaning too laborious into self-criticism and excessive weight-reduction plan can backfire. Which is why the methods we propose later on this article focus extra on including extra nutritious, appetite-regulating meals, and prioritizing issues like mindfulness and motion.
With these approaches, you’ll be much less prone to really feel disadvantaged, and extra prone to really feel glad—and hopefully, empowered.
✅ You’re transferring much less.
As people age, we develop persistent low-grade irritation and weakened immune perform. When mixed with the crummy sleep we talked about earlier, together with different organic adjustments, this may intervene with the physique’s capability to recuperate from intense train.
The outcome: For those who do too many vigorous exercises too shut collectively, you’ll begin to really feel run down, sore, and unmotivated.12 13 14
Different points that crop up round midlife can even intervene with motion, like persistent accidents or joint ache.
(A private instance: Attributable to osteoarthritis in my toes and backbone, I switched from operating to strolling. That is simpler on my physique, however isn’t as environment friendly at burning energy.)
Lastly, because of these pesky time-sucks generally known as full-time jobs and caregiving duties, you may not be as lively in your 40s and 50s as you had been throughout your 20s. Plus, over the previous few many years, a number of innovations (hi there, binge-watching) have conspired to maintain individuals on the sofa and off our toes.
So, are you able to blame your hormones for something?
Aside from messing together with your sleep which, in flip, messes together with your urge for food and power ranges, fluctuating estrogen and progesterone probably aren’t behind your additional kilos—a minimum of, circuitously.
In the event that they had been, menopause hormone remedy would assist individuals cease or reverse weight acquire. (It doesn’t.15)
Nevertheless, shifting hormonal ranges are accountable for the place these additional kilos seem in your physique. As estrogen ranges drop, physique fats tends emigrate away from the thighs and hips and towards the stomach, even if you happen to don’t acquire weight
Outdated ways could cease working after menopause
The “Rocky” weight reduction methodology was my go-to after I was youthful.
Each time I wished to drop just a few kilos, I imagined I used to be a personality in a type of “sofa potato will get tremendous match” motion pictures.
Along with strolling and operating, I embraced the sweat-til-you-vomit exercise du jour. (Bear in mind Tae Bo?) I additionally reduce out meals, meals teams, or complete macronutrients. A few occasions every week, I skipped lunch or dinner.
It labored.
Till, after all, it didn’t.
Now, each time I push too laborious within the fitness center, I both get injured or really feel so unbelievably drained that I have to take 4 days off from all types of motion. If I attempt to do something excessive with my weight loss plan, I finally eat each crunchy or candy factor I can discover, together with stale crackers.
For these causes, after midlife and past, the countermeasures for weight acquire aren’t strict diets ( you, intermittent fasting) or barfy exercises.
As a substitute, to restrict weight acquire after menopause, you could get smart about discovering methods to tip calorie steadiness in your favor with out triggering overpowering starvation, cravings, and fatigue.
No matter age or stage, elementary vitamin and health methods nonetheless apply—and work.
What adjustments after menopause is how you deal with these fundamentals.
Experiment your option to higher outcomes
The most effective menopause plan will look totally different for every particular person.
That’s why experiments are so vital.
Precision Vitamin coaches usually use experiments to assist purchasers uncover important clues about what they want (and don’t want) to achieve their objectives. Primarily based on the outcomes you get from every experiment, you can also make tiny tweaks, take a look at them, and determine whether or not they give you the results you want—till you discover one thing that does give you the results you want.
Methods to run an experiment
Well being experiments are not any totally different from the scientific methodology you realized about in center college.
- Select a query to reply, similar to, “Would I really feel much less munchy at night time if I ate a protein-rich snack each afternoon?”
- Run an experiment to check your query. Within the above instance, you’d monitor your starvation and cravings earlier than including the snack—to get a baseline—after which proceed to trace them for a pair weeks after including the snack.
- Assess what you realized. Did your rankings of starvation and cravings drop? Stay the identical? Go up? What about your precise nighttime meals consumption? This data will help you establish your subsequent steps.
Under are 11 experiments value making an attempt throughout and after menopause. We’ve separated them into three classes: sleep, starvation, and power.
(And if these 11 choices aren’t sufficient, we’ve bought extra concepts right here: Three weight loss plan experiments that may change your consuming habits)
Experiments for improved sleep
Under, you’ll discover a mere smidge of the various sleep tweaks you’ll be able to attempt to take a look at. For extra concepts on potential sleep experiments, try our 14-day-sleep plan and story about cognitive conduct remedy for insomnia.
Experiment #1: Reset your physique’s circadian clock
As you age, your physique begins to behave like an outdated clock that frequently runs gradual.
Even if you happen to was a morning particular person, you would possibly wake groggy, as in case your physique doesn’t realize it’s morning. Or, your physique would possibly let you know “time for mattress” at bizarre occasions, like the center of the afternoon. Then, after spending a number of hours preventing the urge to nod off throughout work conferences, you discover that, when it truly is bedtime, you’re staring on the ceiling at nighttime.
This is the reason it’s useful to experiment with zeitgebers, that are environmental and behavioral time cues that assist to set your physique’s inside circadian clock.
These experiments would possibly embody the next:
- Rise up on the identical time day-after-day, no matter the way you slept the night time earlier than.
- Spend 10-20 minutes within the daylight as quickly as attainable after you wake.
- Take a chilly bathe on the identical time every morning or a sizzling bathe or tub on the identical time every night.
- Get outdoors ceaselessly in the course of the day, particularly everytime you really feel sleepy.
- Train on the identical time day by day. Attempt very first thing within the morning or 4 to six hours earlier than mattress. Bonus factors if you happen to do it outdoor.
- Eat meals, particularly breakfast, on the identical time day-after-day.
Experiment #2: Take away “I’m uncomfortable” out of your sleep vocabulary
The way you run this experiment will depend upon what’s inflicting discomfort. We’ve listed just a few prospects under.
- For those who are likely to wake feeling uncomfortably sizzling: Experiment with cooling expertise. This would possibly vary from the very reasonably priced, similar to turning the thermostat a level or two cooler or utilizing a fan, to the costlier, similar to cooling electrical mattress pads.
- For those who wake feeling bloated: For those who’re constipated, attempt some prunes, a small day by day serving of beans, just a little psyllium fiber, or simply additional water to get issues transferring. Or, you would possibly attempt consuming a smaller meal or avoiding fatty meals within the night.
- If an uncomfortable “I would like to maneuver” sensation creeps into your legs at night time: Discuss to your physician about stressed legs syndrome, a situation that tends to worsen with age and/or iron deficiency. A doctor may additionally offer you concepts to manage if itchy pores and skin or joint ache is maintaining you up.
Experiment #3: Time caffeine strategically
We all know we’re nearly choosing a combat with this suggestion. Nevertheless, it’s value investigating, particularly if you happen to eat caffeine within the afternoon or night.
For those who’re like most individuals, it’s going to take your physique about 5 hours to clear half the caffeine out of your system. Which means about half of your 4 p.m. latte remains to be energizing your system at 9 p.m.
However right here’s the factor: Some individuals metabolize caffeine far more slowly than others, taking roughly twice as lengthy to clear it from their bloodstream.16
Curiously, even if you happen to had no points with caffeine while you had been youthful, you might need points now, as caffeine clearance tends to gradual over time.17
To see if caffeine is an issue, you’ve bought a few choices.
- Attempt slowly shifting your consumption earlier by 30 to 60 minutes. (For those who normally have your final espresso at 4 p.m., reduce your self off at 3 p.m., then 2 p.m., then 1 p.m., then midday.)
- Swap to a decrease caffeine supply. (Attempt a bean mix that’s half decaffeinated. Or, you may change to a lower-caffeine beverage similar to inexperienced tea or maté.)
(But extra options to frequent issues: The 5 prime causes you’ll be able to’t sleep)
Experiments to reign in starvation
The ways under probably received’t shock you. In any case, they type the bedrock for stable vitamin and good total well being.
Nevertheless, earlier than you disregard them with a “been there, completed that!” contemplate: How lots of the under are you truly doing constantly?
Experiment #1: Add a protein serving
It could appear counterintuitive to add a serving of meals to your meals while you’re making an attempt to eat much less.
Nevertheless, this one tactic could assist reign in urge for food and starvation.
Protein takes longer to digest than does carbohydrate or fats, so it helps you are feeling full and glad for longer.
As well as, you could discover, as I did, that you simply’re not consuming anyplace close to as a lot protein as you suppose. (Learn how a lot you want right here: ‘How a lot protein ought to I eat?’ Select the correct quantity for fats loss, muscle, and well being)
Attempt one or each of the next:
- Eat a minimum of 1 to 2 parts of lean protein at each single meal
- Prioritize snacks that include protein—hard-boiled eggs, turkey sausage hyperlinks, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese—as a substitute sweets or chips.
Experiment #2: Select high-fiber carbohydrates over lower-fiber ones
Fibrous plant meals will help fill you up with fewer energy.
To see the distinction, you would possibly monitor how you are feeling after consuming a near-zero-fiber meals, similar to your favourite assortment of snack chips. The next day, when it’s time for a similar snack or facet dish, go for one thing with extra fiber, similar to roasted nuts, a facet of beans, a salad, or a bit of fruit. Discover how the fiber-rich choice impacts your urge for food and starvation for the following few hours.
One other experiment value making an attempt: Embrace one to 2 parts of produce with each meal you eat. Observe your sensations of starvation to see in the event that they make a dent.
Experiment #3: Log between-meal indulgences
You could be reaching for extra snacky meals and drinks than you notice.
These meals don’t should be 100% off-limits; you simply need to be intentional about your consumption and portion sizes.
For a few weeks, maintain monitor of alcohol, sweets, and treats that you simply eat between intentional meals and snacks.
Assessment your notes on the finish of every day to see if these extra impulsive or much less conscious consuming episodes align together with your reminiscence of what and the way a lot you consumed.
Experiment #4: Transfer after meals
Elevated irritation coupled with decreased muscle mass, amongst different components, leads many individuals to turn out to be extra insulin-resistant with age.18 Cells don’t reply as readily to the hormone, which suggests extra glucose stays within the bloodstream slightly than coming into cells that may use it for power.
By way of a posh set of mechanisms, this may drive up starvation and total urge for food.
Consuming protein- and fiber-rich meals will assist, as we talked about earlier.
So will motion. Strolling for as little as two minutes after meals will help your physique course of the carbohydrates you consumed, bettering blood sugar ranges, finds analysis.19 20
As well as, by eradicating your self out of your kitchen, you create a behavior that helps to psychologically shift you away from “consuming” and over to “the kitchen is closed.”
Experiments for extra power
To handle midlife mind fog and fatigue, you’ll need to do all you’ll be able to to encourage good sleep. As well as, see if the under recommendations make a distinction.
Experiment #1: Prioritize energy coaching over intense cardio
This was a tough lesson for me as a result of I love intense cardio.
Nevertheless, now in my 50s, if I attempt to slot in two weekly energy coaching classes and two weekly spin classes, I really feel drugged—as if somebody spiked my espresso with tranquilizers.
When my Precision Vitamin well being coach instructed I dial again on the cardio for a few weeks, I received’t lie. I considered firing her.
However then I took her recommendation and rediscovered what it felt prefer to be alert.
Don’t get me unsuitable: I nonetheless do cardio. However I’m sensible about it. I now know that I can’t do the whole lot, at peak depth, and anticipate to really feel rested and alert day by day. There’s a steadiness.
Energy coaching is more and more vital at midlife to guard bone energy and keep muscle mass. Goal for a minimum of two weekly classes. Then, slot in cardio round these classes.
For those who really feel worn out, experiment with doing low- or moderate-intensity cardio (like brisk strolling, gradual biking, or swimming) over higher-intensity cardio (like an hour-long spin class).
Or, if you happen to love increased intensities, maintain doing them, however shorten your period.
Or, simply save these vigorous classes for while you bought nice sleep the night time earlier than.
Experiment #2: Attempt lively restoration
Lively restoration will help improve blood circulation and the elimination of waste merchandise which will have constructed up in your muscle tissues throughout intense train classes.21
This could embody mild actions similar to strolling, swimming, yoga, or stretching. You may also attempt therapeutic massage, foam rolling, or a protracted, sizzling tub.
Experiment #3: Take into account creatine
A number of of us consider creatine monohydrate as one thing individuals take to get jacked.
Nevertheless, increasingly more proof factors to creatine’s advantages for individuals in midlife and past.
The complement could also be particularly useful for muscle restoration.
In analysis that pooled the info from 23 research, examine members who took creatine skilled fewer indicators of muscle harm 48 to 90 hours after intense coaching than members who didn’t complement.22
The complement may additionally assist you to to suppose clearly, particularly after a foul night time of sleep, finds different analysis.23
Lastly, by selling mobile power all through the physique (together with the mind), creatine could assist to blunt fatigue and enhance temper.24 25
A day by day dose of three to 5 grams works for most individuals.
The successful midlife mindset
There’s one ultimate experiment that I need to let you know about.
It has to do with embracing a mindset of acceptance.
Assume again to different troublesome phases of your life. For me, parenting an toddler with colic involves thoughts. Gosh, I used to be so drained again then that I probably would have forked over my complete 401k in trade for one stable night time of sleep.
Nevertheless, I knew that the stage was momentary. That data helped to maintain me going.
Midlife might be related.
You probably received’t weigh at 55 what you probably did at 25. That’s okay. Nevertheless, the night time sweats, mind fog, and fatigue are all fleeting. You’ll ultimately set up a brand new regular.
Within the meantime, see if you happen to can settle for that your physique could appear and feel totally different now. Shift your focus away from making an attempt to appear and feel like your youthful self and towards constantly embracing new behaviors that can assist you to age with energy, vitality, and contentment.
In any case, you’ve gotten far more management over your conduct than the quantity on the dimensions.
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